Posted at 10.14.2018
When a family group will come in for remedy, the therapist needs to consider different circumstances a family group may have that is different off their own cultural track record; whether it is race, religion, family structure, socioeconomic status, or core ideals. I chose Seven Heaven show that was an 11 calendar year series about a family who the daddy is a well-known well known pastor of the city community chapel, whom lives on a basic salary from what he makes from the chapel, mom fails outside the home however everything inside the home to make her partner and children happy will. As the therapist of the Camden family, I will discuss how I will integrate multicultural concern in dealing with this family, then conceptualize the family's talents, weaknesses, structure, and dynamics. Finally the therapist will discuss how she will intervene in helping this family.
Erik and Annie Camden and their seven children emerged set for family therapy because Erik just lately had a heart attack and the physician said he need to reduce the stress in his life. He is the Minister of the neighborhood church and can sacrifice his family for the needs of the church. His better half Annie is confused with trying to improve seven perfect minister children. She actually is jealous with her spouse spending so much time with women in the church and many times not come home for dinner. When speaking with the parents and children they are the key concerns about each one of the children: Matt is 20 just began college and migrated back home because he sensed his family needed him after his dad's heart attack. Mary 18 is on probation after vandalizing her college after being mad at her bb mentor for terminating basketball due to young ladies on the team levels. Lucy 16. 5 is a well-adjusted young women than tries to keep her others siblings out of trouble. Simon 15-Sassy towards his parents, sneaks out to see young girls and lies to cover up the truth. Ruthie 12-keep her nasal area in everyone's business, lies to stay out of trouble, . Sam and David are occupied five 12 months old twins.
Conceptualize of family dynamics
One of the first things that need to be done is to conceptualize their family's talents, weaknesses, framework, and dynamics in order to bring the family back into balance. Erik parents were very stringent and Annie parents were very lenient; however, Erik and Annie were solid but loving in their willpower with the children. They always developed a punishment together and they never proceeded to go behind one another's back again nor withheld anything from each other involving their children
Erik and Annie take their parenteral jobs seriously where they don't devote some time for themselves to the point Annie was close to a break down and Erik got a coronary attack. Likewise Erik required his job as a pastor seriously to the idea Annie was jealous and thought neglected because he spent more time aiding members of these chapel day or nighttime even when Annie needed his assistance with a number of of the kids.
One of the issues is the Camden's children adhere up for each other for, when someone will something wrong a number of of their siblings covers for them. For example, Mary got into financial debt and Luck, Matt, and Simon developed braking into Sam and David's penny loan provider so that Mary will have money to pay her bad debts. Though it was thoughtful, it enabled Mary to be irresponsible where she extended later on of damage by reducing her obligations so that she can have left over money to work with for liquor.
Another concern the Camden's absence were boundaries, first is Eric and Anne got a good personal intimacy marriage; however, they would not lock their door and the kids would come into their parents room without knocking and at least one time each of the children have walked in on their parents. The youngsters would invade each other's limitations by engaging in one another personal space by either supposing their sibling was doing something wrong and preventing them from making a blunder that might not been the situation. For example, Simon visited a party, he lied where he was going, and Matt figured it out pondering alcohol was being served and travelled and broke him out of the party where alcoholic beverages was not offered. Matt is the first born This composition is not necessarily healthy because first given birth to have a tendency to seek power in an effort to insure their put in place the family (Nichols 2013). Matt attempts to save his other siblings ensuring they are looked after to the idea he's overinvolved psychologically so that he doesn't have to handle his own needs, thus causing him focus on his siblings not himself (Nichols, 2013).
When children enter fights their mommy is there to settle it, Nichols (2013) mentions that this causes children never to feel treated equally the same because they are deprived of settling their disagreements, thus learns to depends on others to stay their differences. Some of the Camden's are well changed and show strong differential of self where they don't really respond to psychological stress and action appropriately during times of stress and anxiety (Nichols, 2013). For example, Lucy, she is emotional stable, she actually is able to make her own decisions and connect her emotions. She can stand on her own; however, she actually is able to ask for advice when she is caught. Unlike Mary, her older sister, Mary will respond to peer pressure, she'll react with defiance when things in her life are unfair such as, vandalize the gym because she got kicked off of the basketball team.
After communicating with the whole family the emphasis of remedy the Camden's obviously mentioned were boundaries within the family active, Mary's action problems, definitely not dad's coronary attack and spending a lot of time doing chapel work and mom's jealousy over it. Utilizing set up therapy in helping the Camden's family clearly needs to established appropriate restrictions in a variety of regions of their family: children/children, parents/children, home/chapel, and romantic relationship between your parents. Structured remedy is utilized to point in changing the old habits so the family may then solve their problems (Nichols 2013).
First of most Eric and Anne will form a tighter collaboration (Nicholas, 2013) as they form limitations between Eric's church responsibilities and the partnership between them and their children. They will set clear boundaries of rules Eric will follow with his church work such as he will work only 40 hours weekly and limit his time by themselves with female participants of his congregation, and he will be home each night in time for dinner even if he has to get back to finish a job later in the night. Anne will value Eric judgment as it pertains to working with female members of their church.
Boundaries within the family would that Eric and Anne will have a lock on the bedroom door and educate the children to not come in their room when it is closed and only knock on the entranceway when it's an emergency. This way the children do not presume they are only in their room having erotic relationships but conversing or watching a movie alongside one another.
Using experiential remedy would be not to solve the Camden's problems within the family but for each family member expressing themselves to discover their true feelings (Nicholas, 2013). This will continue to work well with Camden family because there are many unspoken thoughts. The parents and children as well will enable the relative thus preventing result to happen. For example, mother will solve children issues thus alienating further quarrels however, it inhibits them from going out of to resolve their conflicts within the family. Another example, is Mary's siblings offered her money to prevent further debt instead of aiding her learn money management skills.
Experiential remedy will be used to allow family member to be themselves, they do not need to put on a show but to talk about experiences in a functional way that will lead to a far more honest connection between members of the family (Nicholas, 2013). I believe doing the puppets with the Camden's family will be the best experiential technique to use. It will help highlight issues the Camden's have with one another in a safe environment expressing anger they could have with each other (Nicholas, 2013). I also feel using Experiential would also help Mary act out her feeling she's about her golf ball coach in an optimistic way. This will help her start to see the direct outcome her behavior brought on and maybe come to her own bottom line how she could of handled it without family or therapist sharing with her, therefore lessen her defiance towards her parents.
A counselor spiritual or not will need into consideration the religious background of these clients. Being truly a multicultural competent counselor I'd need to explore how faith and spirituality should be built-into counseling. For instance, being LDS and the Camden's of any protent faith, I would need to ensure that my ideals are not pressured onto the Camden's (Balkin, Schlosser, & Levitt, 2009). Since the Camden's are quite spiritual, Eric, being the minister, I would need to be sure that I am not downplaying his believes such as they shouldn't drink which drinking alcohol relating to his trust is not wrong nor think he should be less on his children do to my believes.
Working with a spiritual family as the Camden's, the counselor would have to combine that in therapy with the family. Structured therapy would help a family who struggle with setting clear restrictions. Using experiential remedy will continue to work with a family that needs to work on expressing their unspoken thoughts. I really believe integrating these two therapy approaches provides the Camden's family back into balance as they work on problems they discovered as issues.
Balkin, R. S. , Schlosser, L. Z. , & Levitt, D. H. (2009). Religious identity and ethnic diversity: Checking out the human relationships between religious personality, sexism, homophobia, and multicultural competence. Journal of Guidance and Development : 87(4), 420-427.
Nichols, M. (2013). Family therapy: Principles and methods 10th Ed. Boston: Allyn & Bacon